We Cannot Afford to Judge...

​Hello, so I was walking home and I seen a couple walking up steps to an apartment and the guy shouts down to me asking do I have any smokes.

 ​I ignored it once but the second time I did not want to appear deaf or rude. I looked at them and shook my head to say no. At this stage it was getting dark so I was thinking this is no good  I doubt they have night vision.
They asked again...Now I am well capable of saying yes and no when I truly want to....My close family ask me yes and no questions and I can at times just grunt and their response is "is that a yes or no" 🤣 The effort it takes. 

I did not feel like grabbing the opportunity to shout my reply...and from my non response I could tell how confused they were. They were looking at each other and talking among themselves. I just walked away and did not feel bad about it as I would have years ago telling myself how useless I am... and questioning what people are thinking about me.

What I have learnt now is that I know the type of person I am... and I do what I can. To be the best version of myself and not over stressing about being different.... because you too are unique...we all are.

 Unfortunately not everyone is open to different abilities out there, instead...they just throw them badness. It is important to send those people forgiveness, laughter, and the hope that one day they will have more understanding... because they too are unique individuals. They probably just do not look at themselves that way. 

So they can afford to judge me...but I can't them. 

We as individuals are on different journeys, but we really want to end up in the same place. To be indulged in the feeling of pure love.... and to feel overwhelmingly contented. 

Let go of any non beneficial feelings that are not presently serving you... or others who you interact with... let us all just love life.. and live life... to the best of our abilities. 

I thank myself for choosing to walk the way I did, and meeting that couple.... looking for a smoke. It inspired me to write this blog post 

Thank you so much for taking your time to read.

Have a great Tuesday 🥰🥰